Showing posts with label goodbye. Show all posts
Showing posts with label goodbye. Show all posts

Thursday, July 9, 2015

The Time has Come…


It is with sadness, some apprehension and big sighs that - on July 3rd, 2015 - I bid a final farewell to Irie, my beloved and reliable floating home and means of travel for eight years. After cleaning her inside and out, packing up our personal belongings and leaving her in a very secure state in a well-protected marina in Moorea, she is looking great, while awaiting new owners who will hopefully love and respect her as much as we did. She has not sold yet, but we expect this to happen pretty soon, based on her market value. She is as good as ready to go sailing and cruising again and continue her epic travels!

It was almost equally as hard for me to leave Moorea and French Polynesia after two years of exploring the islands, enjoying their spectacular beauty, discovering the intriguing culture and meeting some of the nicest and most hospitable people in the world. This place has captured my heart and spirit, and I truly hope I can return one day. After getting a ride from Coco, the harbor master of Vaiare Marina, to the harbor dock with all my bags, my friend Pierrette joined me on the ferry to Tahiti. She brought me to her Tahitian home to spend my last afternoon in typical Polynesian style. It was her husband Thierry’s birthday and we had a lovely meal and pleasant time, before they dropped me off at the Faa’a airport one last time…

The plane rides back to Boston, on the East Coast of the United States, went relatively smoothly and I am now reunited with my happy husband, who has had a productive and comfortable time being back in his home country. Work on the Wirie business is much easier, industrious and satisfying from here, we are catching up with friends and family, and I am trying to find my own routine. Whenever Irie sells, this temporary situation will come to an end and we will figure out what our future entails.

I plan on keeping this blog going, but the content will become a bit more personal, mostly unrelated to sailing and less adventurous for the time being. But, I expect this “time being” will be short-lived! :-)

Irie in Vaiare Marina with Tahiti across the channel

The marina is well-protected by the surrounding mountains

Last dinner and evening with Birgit and Christian (SV Pitufa) on Irie

Sunrise across the channel, next to Tahiti

Sunrise over Tahiti at 5:30am - another early start for me on Moorea!

Taking my last ferry from Moorea to Tahiti with Pierrette, who has a house on both islands with her husband Thierry

My friends' yard in Mahina, Tahiti

Daughter Lahana preparing a wonderful Thai meal

A Thai culinary feast with my Polynesian family - Happy Birthday, Thierry!

Leaving LA on the way to Boston

Back in Newburyport, USA - Pierrette and Thierry gave me shell necklaces representing a safe return to French Polynesia one day...

Irie, safely secured in Vaiare Marina and looking pretty, is still for sale

Saturday, November 3, 2012

A Sad Part of Cruising: Saying Goodbye


An important thing about the cruising life - important enough to keep some people from choosing this life - is that you leave good friends and caring family members behind. In many cases they are thousands of miles removed from you and live – sometimes quite literally – on the other side of the world. Luckily, the internet keeps communications and updates available, although it is not the same as being face to face with the people you love.

A positive part about the cruising life is that you meet people along the way. Loads of them. With at least one thing in common: a passion for the sea or for a life on the water. Still, it is pretty hard to find like-minded spirits, sailors and travelers, who you can laugh and cry with, share stories and experiences with, have fun and a cocktail with, and exercise and explore with. When these matches happen and you actually get to hang out for months – or years – together, bliss and awesome times result. The need for social contact is fulfilled and not just with the random cruiser. The downside of all this happiness is the inevitable moment to say goodbye. While friends “at home” will always be there, the cruising alternates go their own way (or you do), in different directions. Who knows when and where or - even worse – whether you will ever see them again?

About one year ago, Mark and I had our last drink with Sim and Rosie on SV Alianna, after being great friends and around each other for a couple of years. That happened in Grenada, when we decided to head west for new horizons and adventures. Fortunately, we have been in email contact frequently and we still share our stories and rants, but not in so much detail and without the facial expressions. We wish they would still be with us, though. They decided to stay in the Eastern Caribbean, which they love and cherish. And, they’ve been in our neck of the woods before. I hope that we can keep our friendship going, as we further the distance between us.

Just before leaving the San Blas, Mark and I had a last dinner with Mark and Michele on SV Reach, good friends whom we spent a few months with this year. She and I did yoga almost every morning and we went snorkeling when the weather and desire permitted. My Mark sometimes joined her Mark to go fishing and he learned a lot from him. We didn’t go hungry thanks to his fish supply! Many evenings were spent in each other’s company with good food, drinks, stories and laughs.  They were the first to learn about our big decision to transit the Panama Canal and to go sailing in the Pacific Ocean. With all our new plans, preparations, research and tasks, the moment to part ways came quicker than anticipated. But, we are not on “the other side” yet and Mark and I both hope to make one more trip to the beautiful San Blas islands towards the end of this year. Hopefully Michele still has some champagne left! :-)


Saying goodbye to Michele (and Mark) with a glass of champagne. The color coordinating was not planned!


Forward bend at our daily yoga spot on BBQ island in the Holandes Cays


A beautiful pigeon by Michele


It has already been a year: saying goodbye to Rosie and Sim in Grenada